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( kink list )
XL EXCLUSIVES
FAVORITES
YESES
MAYBES
NOPES
TMI DETAILS
sexuality: basically xie lian-sexual, but pansexual in terms of potential sexual encounters
relationship status: married (see below)
preferences: no strong preferences in terms of physical appearance, hua cheng is fairly equal opportunity in that regard. however, irrespective of gender, personality-wise hua cheng likes people who are more submissive than him, but not necessarily dainty and in need of coddling—he is not a very good coddler! he can appreciate someone who allows themselves to submit but are also strong and independent and maybe even a little bit bratty in their own right.
size & grooming: uncut and big. not like a bad dragon, but think a good 6 and a half inches when soft and 9??? inches when erect. he can also change his form at will, which means, you know. if you do want to fuck a monster cock and/or get eaten out by an inhumanly long tongue, he's your guy! he doesn't have much body hair in general, which means that his pubes are pretty sparse too, and while he doesn't actively manscape per se, he does stay clean and tidy.
sensitive places: fingers and hands, along his hips, nape of his neck, inner thighs. these are things hua cheng doesn't even know about himself yet, though, because he's new to sex and also because it's extremely rare for anybody to touch him in a way that isn't trying to kill him, so he hasn't really had time to figure it out.
preferred positions: to be honest, he hasn't done it enough to have fully-formed opinions yet, but so far doggy and cowgirl are turning out to be big winners! anything that gets him a little bit of leverage and lets him see what he's doing to his partner are probably going to be favorites in the long run.
dominant or submissive: dominant by far. with xie lian he might be more submissive, but with any other partner, he's going to lean toward the dominant and not be willing to back down. he can swing a little bit between hard top and service top, but he's never going to be interested in being in a submissive or vulnerable position with anyone other than xie lian.
sadism or masochism: leaning toward the sadism side, but it's more of a "by request" situation. he doesn't necessarily get off on hurting people himself, but if a partner wanted him to hurt them within reason (e.g. slapping, biting, etc.) he would do it willingly and probably enjoy the experience as long as his partner enjoyed themselves too.
undergarments & sleepwear: undergarments are… a new phenomenon for him, but once he gets used to them, it'll probably be boxer briefs (the fitted kind because he's annoying and knows they look hot on him). as far as sleepwear, none—he sleeps in the nude.
frequency of masturbation: extremely infrequent. he's been singlemindedly in love with one man for eight centuries, so while he's probably gotten off a handful of times thinking about xie lian, he would also feel like using xie lian's image in that way would be disrespectful and he wouldn't like that. it certainly wouldn't be something he does often.
favorite toys: so far lingerie is nice. other than that, he hasn't experienced much as far as toys. when he figures out how vibrators work it's over for you bitches though.
NOTES & OTHER INFO
the deets: hua cheng is pansexual for all intents and purposes, but he is also married and has been in love with his husband for literally eight centuries, so that's where his loyalty lies first and foremost and that's why there's a whole column of stuff that are "xie lian exclusives." these are things that he would only consider doing with xie lian, and would not be interested in doing with anyone else at this point in time. that said, a lot of the stuff on that list is potentially on the table with the right setup, and i love to do a saucy lil plot so please don't take it as "xl exclusive" =/= "no possible way to make it happen in-game."
additionally re: the married situation, xie lian's player and i have discussed their respective okayness with fucking other people in the name of playing the game, so please don't worry, we're not pulling anyone unwittingly into an adultery/cuckolding plot you didn't sign up for!
hua cheng is from ancient sword china, before they invented stuff like safe words and bdsm etiquette i guess. he won't know to ask for any of that stuff. he's not like a total dickhead but he can be very arrogant and not always the most concerned with other people's comfort (xie lian excluded). i welcome him being put in his place a little by somebody who knows more about that stuff than he does!
brief breakdown of the categories:
if something isn't on the list it's probably not off the table, so feel free to ask about stuff too, i'll say hell yeah to almost anything that's not in the hard no column! comments are screened or i can be reached by PM.